Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
This Sunday is Father’s Day, and while it traditionally coincides with the conclusion of our annual Carnival, this year, due to how the calendar has fallen, we get to celebrate it distinct from that. As such, allow me to present to a section of scripture speaking to the value of honoring both fathers and mothers, that comes from the 3 rd chapter of the Book of Sirach.
Children, listen to me, your father; act accordingly, that you may be safe. For the Lord sets a father in honor over his children and confirms a mother’s authority over her sons. Those who honor their father atone for sins; they store up riches who respect their mother. Those who honor their father will have joy in their own children, and when they pray they are heard. Those who respect their father will live a long life; those who obey the Lord honor their mother. Those who fear the Lord honor their father, and serve their parents as masters. In word and deed honor your father, that all blessings may come to you.
A father’s blessing gives a person firm roots, but a mother’s curse uproots the growing plant. Do not glory in your father’s disgrace, for that is no glory to you! A father’s glory is glory also for oneself; they multiply sin who demean their mother. My son, be steadfast in honoring your father; do not grieve him as long as he lives. Even if his mind fails, be considerate of him; do not revile him because you are in your prime. Kindness to a father will not be forgotten; it will serve as a sin offering—it will take lasting root. In time of trouble it will be recalled to your advantage, like warmth upon frost it will melt away your sins. Those who neglect their father are like blasphemers; those who provoke their mother are accursed by their Creator.
I’ve always appreciated the depth of respect that is on display in this passage. I recognize that the relationship with own’s parents can be vast and complicated; no two people have exactly the same experiences, even within the same family. But the idea that giving honor and respect, in a variety of ways and experiences, speaks to the love that hopefully is shared between parent and child. Does that mean it’s always perfect? Of course not, but the desire to aim for such an ideal is still worthy of our consideration.
And so, to all the fathers of the parish, please know how important and valued you are to your family and to our community. I hope that you have a chance to be celebrated for all the good that you do. Please continue to be a stable presence within your home, teaching your children well and being strong support to your family. And may the Blessings of Our Heavenly Father give you the strength and grace to live as men of faith!
Peace and Goodness,
Fr. Dan
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